Books to build confidence for ages 9 to teen

Many children are naturally prone to self-doubt, or might encounter situations that make them nervous. Stories about characters finding confidence can help young readers draw parallels in their own lives, while positive self-help’ books can offer practical advice. This selection of fiction and non-fiction might help children aged from 8 to 13 build their confidence.

An illustration from the front cover of Quiet Storm of a girl wearing a headband and earphones, with her hair billowing around her as she looks up into the pink sky
  • How to Shine at Primary School

    by Kit Brown, illustrated by Allison Steinfeld 

    2024 5 to 14 years 

    • Non-fiction

    Teacher, BBC Bitesize presenter and TikTok star Kit Brown shares his top tips on how to shine at primary school in this sensitive and inspiring non-fiction book. 

  • Being You: Poems of Positivity

    by Daniel Thompson, illustrated by Julia Murray 

    2023 5 to 14 years 

    • Poetry and rhyme

    Sometimes we all need a bit of a positive boost, and this book of 50 poems packed with positivity and happiness is just the ticket.

  • Speak Up!

    by Rebecca Burgess 

    2022 9 to 14 years 

    • Graphic novels
    • Autistic spectrum conditions

    Mia is a secret superstar musician, writing song lyrics that her friends love. But in real life she’s bullied for being different. Is Mia ready to show the world who she really is?

  • Fearless! How to be your true, confident self

    by Liam Hackett, illustrated by Mike Perry 

    2020 9 to 14 years 

    • Non-fiction

    A self-help guide for youngsters struggling with self-esteem, peer pressure or fitting in’.

  • The Insiders

    by Cath Howe 

    2022 9 to 14 years 

    • Chapter books

    This poignant novel about the complexities of friendship dynamics is perceptive, insightful and sensitively written, with touches of humour. The chapters are narrated in turn by Callie, Ted and Billy, which will help readers to develop empathy, as they are able to explore different viewpoints and understand that people’s circumstances can dramatically affect their behaviour. 

  • A Kind of Spark

    by Elle McNicoll 

    2020 9 to 14 years 

    • Autistic spectrum conditions
    • Disability

    When 11 year old Addie, who is autistic, learns about the 16th century women who were persecuted for witchcraft, she starts to lobby for a local memorial in her small Scottish village. With the help of a new girl at school, she fights valiantly against injustice and oppression.

  • You are a Champion

    by Marcus Rashford and Carl Anka 

    2021 9 to 14 years 

    • Non-fiction

    England footballer Marcus Rashford shares tips and advice that he’s learned on his journey from being a football-mad kid in Manchester to a sports megastar and political activist, as well as how to handle issues of confidence and anxiety.

  • Dare To Be You

    by Matthew Syed, illustrated by Toby Triumph 

    2020 9 to 14 years 

    • Non-fiction

    Packed with ways to handle self-doubt and build confidence to support readers to achieve what they want.

  • The Great Ice Cream Heist

    by Elen Caldecott 

    2013 9 to 14 years 

    • Adventure
    • Funny

    Shy Eva lives a quiet life with her protective Dad – until the noisy McIntyre family move in next door.

  • A Better Day: Your Positive Mental Health Handbook

    by Dr Alex George, illustrated by The Boy Fitz Hammond 

    2023 9 to 14 years 

    • Non-fiction

    An upbeat and positive book which feels perfectly pitched at lower secondary school kids and will no doubt be hugely helpful for many.

  • Pretty Funny

    by Rebecca Elliott 

    2020 11 to 14 years 

    • Funny
    • Love and romance

    Haylah Swinton wants to be a stand-up comic, but her lack of confidence stands in her way. Can she find the self-esteem to love her body and reject the boy who’s using her?

  • Quiet Storm

    by Kimberly Whittam 

    2023 11 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age

    Do you hate reading aloud in front of other people? Do you never put your hand up because you can’t stand everyone looking at you? Well, Storm feels exactly like that.

  • The Sad Ghost Club

    by Lize Meddings 

    2021 11 to 14 years 

    • Ghost story
    • Graphic novels

    A sad ghost wants to go to a party, but his social anxiety keeps holding him back. When he meets another anxious ghost, he realises he’s not alone. A charming graphic novel for older readers about depression, friendship, and finding a kindred spirit.

  • Be Resilient Be You

    by Becky Goddard-Hill, illustrated by Josephine Dellow 

    11 to 14 years 

    • Non-fiction

    A helpful and practical guide to coping with tough times, by building resilience. Includes 40 topics and many suggested activities.