Books about identity for teens

Teenagers are working out who they are and what choices they want to make: in their friendships, during times of stress and change, and as they grow up. Here is a selection of brilliant books that explore these themes.

  • One Chance Dance

    by Efua Traoré 

    2023 9 to 14 years 

    • Adventure
    • Around the world
    • Coming-of-age
    • Deafness

    A stunning, joyful, coming-of-age story, set in Nigeria, that vibrates with the same energy as the city of Lagos itself.

  • Rat

    by Patrice Lawrence 

    2021 11 to 14 years 

    • Chapter books
    • Coming-of-age
    • Dyslexia

    Al’s mum is back in prison again – and Al thinks it’s their neighbour’s fault, so he plots revenge with his beloved pet rats, Venom and Vulture. A moving insight into the world of a young boy affected by poverty, neglect and crime, who eventually learns to trust. 

  • Fallout

    by Lesley Parr 

    2024 9 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age

    If people think you are bad news, what do you have to do to prove them wrong? And if they think you’re bad news regardless of what you do, what’s the point in trying to be better? 

  • How To Get Magically Popular

    by Radhika Sanghani 

    2025 9 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age
    • Diversity and inclusion

    This funny yet thought-provoking exploration of the nature of friendship and learning to live in the present is a great coming-of-age story, with a cast of diverse characters and an interesting mother-daughter relationship.

  • Just Like Everyone Else

    by Sarah Hagger-Holt 

    2023 9 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age

    A funny, thought-provoking story that challenges gender stereotypes, explores different ideas of family and acknowledges the difficulty that can be experienced by a young man coming to terms with his sexuality.

  • Boy vs Reality

    by James Fox 

    2026 9 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age

    Part cautionary tale and part punchy, coming-of-age story, Boy vs Realiy exposes the pressure an online presence can bring and how badly it can sometimes warp life in the real world. 

  • Two is a Crowd

    by Cath Howe, illustrated by Miguel Bustos 

    2026 9 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age
    • Funny

    The start of secondary school has been hard for Hattie. Her best friend has found someone else, and now a family friend Seren has come to stay and she feels pushed out. Follow her as she negotiates these challenges in this warm, witty and accessible illustrated book. 

  • Geek Girl

    by Holly Smale 

    2013 9 to 14 years 

    • Funny

    Everyone at school knows Harriet Manners is a geek.

  • What is Masculinity? Why Does it Matter? And Other Big Questions

    by Jeffrey Boakye and Darren Chetty 

    2019 11 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age
    • Non-fiction

    This timely and excellent book explores what it means to be a man in today’s society. It poses thought-provoking questions to develop readers’ critical thinking skills, and will give them the confidence to question conventions and stereotypes. 

  • King of Nothing

    by Nathanael Lessore 

    2024 11 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age
    • Funny

    Anton is the King of Year 9, but he’s forced to hang out with the school’s biggest loser. A hilarious coming-of-age story.

  • Big Words

    by Luke Palmer 

    2026 11 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age

    When Sam invents a new game, no one dares defy him even though they all think it’s a bad idea. A compelling, accessible, dyslexia-friendly story of male friendship that packs a huge amount into just over 100 pages.

  • Quiet Storm

    by Kimberly Whittam 

    2023 11 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age

    Do you hate reading aloud in front of other people? Do you never put your hand up because you can’t stand everyone looking at you? Well, Storm feels exactly like that.

  • The Hate U Give

    by Angie Thomas 

    2017 11 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age

    The Hate U Give is rightly named by many critics as one of the most important books of 2017. It’s a profound, deeply compelling modern-day classic that explores race in America.

  • Booked

    by Kwame Alexander 

    2016 11 to 14 years 

    • Poetry and rhyme

    From fast-paced football matches to school and family drama, this novel written in verse has something for everyone and will grip reluctant readers from page one.

  • Glow up Lara Bloom

    by Dee Benson 

    2023 9 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age
    • Diaries and journals
    • Diversity and inclusion

    Funny and heart-warming, this diary is an ode to celebrating yourself just as you are.

  • The Switch-Up

    by Katy Cannon 

    2019 11 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age
    • Funny