Books about grief and loss for 9 to 12 year olds

Books can help children to understand sad feelings. We’ve suggested some books that are excellent reads and can help children cope with tough emotions.

  • If You Read This

    by Kereen Getten 

    2022 9 to 14 years 

    • Around the world
    • Coming-of-age

    Set on the colourful, sun-soaked island of Jamaica, this beautiful, compelling story combines an intriguing quest with a story of grief and heartache.

  • The Shark Caller

    by Zillah Bethell, illustrated by Saara Katariina Söderlund 

    2021 9 to 14 years 

    • Adventure
    • Around the world
    • Chapter books

    Following the death of her parents, Blue Wing moves in with Siringen, a gentle village elder. When a new girl arrives on the island, a surprisingly, sisterly bond begins to form. A beautiful novel exploring complex emotions of grief and guilt.

  • The Haunting of Tyrese Walker

    by J P Rose 

    2022 9 to 14 years 

    • Adventure
    • Around the world
    • Ghost story
    • Myths and legends
    • Thriller

    A compelling mix of Caribbean folklore and the story of a boy’s overwhelming grief create extraordinary tension in this creepy ghost story set in Jamaica.

  • You Will Be Okay

    by Julie Stokes, illustrated by Laurène Boglio 

    2021 9 to 14 years 

    • Non-fiction

    This gentle guide for children experiencing feelings of grief and loss is written by Julie Stokes, a clinical psychologist and founder of childhood bereavement charity Winston’s Wish.

  • Sadé and Her Shadow Beasts

    by Rachel Faturoti 

    2022 9 to 14 years 

    • Chapter books

    Since her mum died, Sadé has been escaping to a magical imaginary land to deal with her grief – but the lines between the real world and her imagination start blurring as her feelings begin to get too much. A beautiful story that tackles big feelings in an accessible and relatable way.

  • Ride North

    by Maria de Jong 

    2025 9 to 14 years 

    • Coming-of-age
    • Around the world

    Set in New Zealand, touching on indigenous culture and exploring the beaches, forests, wilderness and tourist towns of the North Island, this is a wonderful coming-of-age story with hope at its heart. 

  • My Dog

    by Olivia Wakeford, illustrated by David Litchfield 

    2025 9 to 14 years 

    • Chapter books

    Rhys has to move to London from Wales, to live with his dad. But Dad doesn’t know about his new dog Worthington … Beautifully moving. 

  • A Monster Calls

    by Patrick Ness, illustrated by Jim Kay 

    2011 9 to 14 years 

    • Classics
    • Coming-of-age

    Connor’s mum has cancer and life is changing. There is the nightmare, then there is school, where people avoid him, or persecute him. And then there is the immense, mythic Monster.

  • Stone

    by Finbar Hawkins 

    2022 11 to 14 years 

    • Myths and legends

    Ancient magic and folklore weave into a modern day story of a boy grieving for his father in this beautiful tale for older readers.